Friday, October 10, 2008

A Clean Attitude

I tend to be a glass half empty kind of gal. That is just how I'm wired. I'm ok with that most of the time. Not that I want to be critical, but seeing what is wrong helps get things done. The problem is when I see that there is a lot to get done, I feel overwhelmed, and then just shut down. Such is the case with my house right now. 

There is no getting around it, my house is filthy. A summer of neglect has taken its toll. With all the tasks to complete outside and all the canning to be done inside, cleaning over the summer has consisted of dishes, laundry, and perhaps sweeping the floor. 

Now that the garden is all but done, the canning is complete, and school in full swing, I find myself noticing the clutter. Noticing the layers of dust. Noticing the filthy cupboards. Noticing is good, but there is so much to notice that I'm feeling overwhelmed. 

There are supermoms out there like Ivy who are cleaning their houses top to bottom. With Thanksgiving around the corner and lots of family headed this way, I know I need to join them in their cleaning foray. I'm having trouble getting started. 

I think I need an attitude adjustment.  I'm choosing to look beyond the pile of canning equipment in the corner of my kitchen. Just beyond that pile, I can see the jars of produce put up this summer that we will enjoy all winter.  Those dirty hand prints on the sliding glass door? Just signs of little ones who passed through those doors on their way out to play in the sunshine. Dust on the bookshelves? Evidence of a time away from the books for life lessons in the garden. 

Choosing to look at things this way doesn't mean that I won't be cleaning them. It just improves my attitude. It makes appreciate how things came to this state instead of feeling overwhelmed by the state of my house. 

Now that I'm in a better frame of mind, I can start the huge task of cleaning this small house, one corner at a time. 

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9 comments:

Kokopelli said...

I tried leaving a comment on StumbleIt, but I dont' think it took. I'll try when I get home and am awake.

Tim Appleton (Applehead) said...

I wouldn't have you any other way.

learning the ropes said...

Ahhh! the never ending task of cleaning, you have just touched my raw nerve. On one of these Fridays I made the mistake of jotting down all the cleaning (and then some) tasks that I thought I would do that particular weekend. Just looking at them in black and white made me sigh...talk about ruined weekend. I always wonder how do we manage to mess up the house so much within a mere 5 days :(

Mandy said...

My house is just the same. With all the "projects" that are going on plus all the kids activities things around here are getting neglected! I choose to look at it this way: With things the way they are in this world I am lucky to have a house that is messy and things to get dusty! No this doesn't get things done but it makes it a little more bearable!

Anonymous said...

Don't worry stephanie you will have plenty of time to clean house when the kids are all grown and gone and that will happen before you know it. Gail

BadBadIvy said...

Oh, ho, ho, ho! My house was pretty much a wreck before I cleaned thoroughly this week, trust me. :)

Stephanie @ Keeper of the Home said...

My Thanksgiving is coming up this Monday! Ack! :) (I'm Canadian, of course)

You know, I've been feeling the very same way this week. I spent most of this week canning again, though fortunately that is almost the end of it. I'm looking around at my house, which is in a bit of disarray after about 6 weeks of near neglect, not to mention a summer where I also kept the cleaning to a minimum in favor of gardening and such.

Thanks for the encouragment to look at it with some fresh eyes. I'm so thankful when I look at my full freezer and rows of jars above the pantry. And thankful also to be moving back into a different season of being more focused again on school and my home again, as the fall chill sets in. It's a good thing, and I'll remember that as I start in on my own corner of the house to tackle all that needs to be done!

Stacy said...

Happy cleaning!

I love your attitude. It is a great way to look at things. Life is messy, we can't enjoy it without a few hand prints on the glass door and dust on the bookshelves :)

Have a happy day,
Stacy

Hilty Sprouts! said...

Oh, I hear you! You described me perfectly! Thanks for the uplifting attitude adjustment!

Jennifer