When You're On the Same Page
We celebrated Christmas with my family over the weekend. It was a relaxing and fun time. The cousins could not have been more thrilled, as they rarely all get together. It was enjoyable to see them interacting and playing. Vivian was particularly thrilled to have a real baby around to play with. We were missing one family member, but that is another story I suppose.
This morning I was thinking about our weekend. It really was a simple family get together. Our meals were simple. Not all of them were exactly frugal, thanks mom for the seafood stew, but most meals included items that were prepared ahead or easily put together. Everything was delicious, and no one was stuck in the kitchen with lots of cooking or cleaning up.
We opened presents on Sunday. We all kept it simple and frugal this year. Less gifts were purchased. Many gifts were homemade, second hand, or purchased on clearance,but this did not dampen the joy of opening presents one bit. Everyone had a gift that they were extremely pleased with. Several of the kids even did the happy dance around the living room after discovering their gift. My sister-in-law and I compared our thrift store and clearance bargains afterward, "She loves that and you only paid a dollar," and "Can you believe I found that at the thrift store for only three dollars?"
Sometimes you feel like a fish swimming upstream when choosing a simpler and more frugal lifestyle. It is nice to see some reward from your choices. It certainly helps when your family is on the same page with you.







4 comments:
This is an area that has allowed us to enjoy our Christmas so much more this year as well.
My in-loves are no longer able to afford all the high priced electronics that they usually buy my children now that my mother in-love is retired. So this year they had to shop with restraint.
I don't blame them for buying the children what the want, because that's what grandparents do. But this year we were all on a level playing field as far as gift price range is concerned. I was glad that my husband and I's gift was now overshadowed by their gift giving this year.
That is really great, Stephanie! It just helps so much when your friends and family "get it" with regards to your lifestyle and how you spend your money.
I hope you enjoy all of those great thrifty treasures!!
that's wonderful Stephanie!! I wish it was like that with my in laws; my parents are great and don't go overboard.
I'm so happy for you. My brother and sis-in-love and my hubby and I FINALLY decided this year not to exchange gifts. We only do gifts for the kids and Mama and we're thinking that next year maybe even the kids will draw names. It is so freeing. We all have what we need and all we really want is to see each other during the holidays.
I hope you have a wonderful New Year. We're celebrating quite peacefully here.
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